Nice Guy in 2003, hundreds of thousands of men worldwide have learned how to release toxic shame, soothe their anxiety, face their fears, connect with men, embrace their passion and purpose, and experience success in work and career.

Common Nice Guy patterns include giving to get, difficulty setting boundaries, dishonesty, caretaking, fixing, codependency, people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, passive-aggressiveness, unsatisfying relationships, issues with sexuality, and compulsive masturbation and pornography use. Subsequently, these men are often anything but nice. The inauthentic and chameleon-like approach to life causes Nice Guys to often feel frustrated, confused, and resentful. If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life.If I meet other people’s needs without them having to ask, then they will meet my needs without me having to ask.If I am good, then I will be liked and loved.The paradigm of the Nice Guy Syndrome is driven by three faulty covert contracts.

Rapid social change in the late 20th century and early 21st century has contributed to a worldwide explosion of men struggling to find happiness, love, and purpose. The Nice Guy Syndrome typically begins in infancy and childhood when a young boy inaccurately internalizes emotional messages about himself and the world. He also believes that he must hide anything about himself that might trigger a negative response in others. He is convinced that he must become what he thinks others want him to be liked, loved, and get his needs met. Robert Glover, a pioneering expert on the Nice Guy Syndrome, is a man who believes he is not okay just as he is. How did you know me so well?Ī Nice Guy, according to Dr. “I have read every self-help book out there, but this was the first that put everything together in a way that made perfect sense to me.” “One of the best books I’ve ever read on men’s emotional health and development.” Mark Manson, author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Models.

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